I have a theory. Connection and relationships have five dials. Physical, sexual, emotional, intelligence, and soul. The connection in a relationship is a dial from 0-10. Physical and sexual are two of the easiest dials to line up, and they are important but not as important as the other three. In fact the closer to ten you are on the last three, the higher the chance of explosive intimacy, but it can the throttled back by the other two. The thing is though the sexuality dial can actually be adjusted upwards over time.

So you find that person with a dial on sex, they are good for one nighters. The mature and intelligent person knows it is only good for one time, because each interaction the dial gets turned down 👇👇👇

Great article

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Alan Tegel

Alan Tegel

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.