I have been too big, to just right to just enough. The thing that sucks for the too big arena is one you can't bottom out. There is something nice about being all the way in as snug as a bug in a rug ...

On the too big, picture making her bleed like her first period. Picture seeing the women you adore grimace like you just punched her in the stomach, or if she has a high pain tolerance being sore the rest of the week.

I can imagine on the woman side if the guy is bringing the big gun, feeling inadequate that she has the supposed guys of all woman's dreams (highly presumptive btw and not my view), or making it work and knowing he can't go all the way in **

** if she is into pain ... then she may like this.

The longer I live ... the more I know one can never assume "anything" "ever".