I just had an interaction with a male troll recently which one got to see all of him in his glory. He challenged commentary about consent, called folks into Kink perverts and yet was offended at the implication that he as a PIV only and only way to have sex made him boring (note I never said that but I gave ideas on how to spice things up 50 flavors of vanilla)

I tried with boundaries to facilitate a conversation, but in testing him I found even with some apology he was still a dick. So I muted him and when he went toxic and reported him, then after one more go block.

I am 80% certain it was a person I gave advice to about healing himself after he was caught cheating on his lover for whom he was cheating on his wife with. In short he was the Short king of narcissism, so why should we attempt to people please him? Nope.

I was still frustrated with this and mainly amped because SJW trolled me when Greta was out doing her thing, because I warned about Russian aggression in being dependent and the fact her parents were taking advantage of their Asperger based child for writing a book. So daily I have to work with the tools I built with boundaries and calming to not go to their level, and what did I do (get your womanly ears up #snicker). I deep cleaned the house [7 hours], for which I would have rather read erotica, a book, or anything else. I also had earlier in the evening (1am) helped foal a horse so I had to do sanitization work from the blood and all that.

So I realized, I need to take the angst and anger (which women have too very much so) and put it into the things that matter.

As for women (from a male POV), they should expect men to push out of that man-box, but also they need to push out of the woman-box too.

E.g. desire a male partner, show it, let them be consensually objectified and desired. Need intimacy, get it and if they can't because their partner won't/can't consent ... take care of it as you all are beautiful and amazing.

That IMO is where people pleasing should go, with close intimate partners to stoke the flames of desire and love. Not in a shallow spray over the masses as it will never be appreciated.

Again this is my personal view ... for the moment.