I know if my relationship with my wife ends, my next one has to be with a friend.

Any other version of coupling is shallow in my book and life is to short to play in the mental kiddie pool of life.

I look on broken past friendships and connections through this lens now, and my view now (to quote Indy Jones 3rd movie) only the chosen may pass ... Friendship is the 🗝️ to my inner being and not everyone is granted backstage all access passes.

Bravo on this find and it is all about consent, and I have been pre committed relationship on the short end of stuck with a few women who questioned my sexuality and it hurt. I now know they were not good people and not worth the time as you have found out ....

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Alan Tegel

Alan Tegel

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.

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