I learned about this kink (cuckolding) when I flew into to see some College football buddies (they played ball). Instead of going home, I visited and crashed and we went to some parties. The couple hosting the parties where both presidents in the Greek System (I was a GDI [god damn independent], but since I was associated with my friends and the football stuff long history).

I was crashed out on a couch near a bedroom and I got introduced to that angle and she was very much a negative alpha type (I actually had sex with her also when she was with her guy). So she was sort of discreet but not … whatever.

It intrigued me so I did research and was surprised at what I found. I also had an ex-that loved to watch me have sex with her roommate while she pretended to be “asleep”. I later found out they were both voyeurs and loved it.

To each their own, and it is totally cool. It is fun to have secrets and have a skeleton or three in the closet.

That being said …

The shares that you have done over the past year is downright amazing Beth Singleton. It is amazing the depth and detail you have shared on your growth and what you have done in having a mature and solid relationship with your partner. If you remember the shit storm from Will Smith and Jada Pinkett about their shared sexual experiences, it was sad because it was toxic.

You on the other hand and what you both achieved is extremely admirable and shows the quality of human being you are. Well except for those gamers that your slaughter in video games :)

Be well, thanks for the article, and thanks for the response. I hope my definition expansion, helped provide you some research. The experience I believe will change both of you in good ways.

Take care!

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