I listened to my father have to be the power of authority and maintenance for his parents and siblings.

The amount of work involved is tremendous. It was a full time job for him for many years. It showed the capacity of love he had that is just amazing.

So the same to you, as peeling back the maelstrom of knick knacks takes and effort that is indescribably in both monotony and mental aguish at the same time.

It is empowering and sad, because you are the person getting burdened with it while not being able to live your life because you are grasping at others (by consent of course and more power to you) remnants.

I wish partially as a friend you could hand this off to your siblings .... so your life can be basked in joy.