I on the other don't mind concise and tight lips. To each their own, I am sorry you felt shamed for something you really couldn't change.

The *only* silver lining to someone saying this is the joy of knowing you will never waste another second of time on the waste of humanity in front of you.

As a man if we were in our life's path, if I knew you were sensitive about this, I would take the time to trace my finger or tongue over it (presuming consent and intimacy) and tell you how I love every piece of you.

Shame on men and double shame on women for shaming you.

Be well and I hope for success in all you hope to achieve, and only people of merit in your life.