I only have my anecdotal life views, but if I take and respect women's comments. It has to epically suck that the numbers of men not like this is rare.

I really do joke about unicorns being empathic men who do what we are talking about, but it sounds like the joke is a sad reality.

If other guys read this conversation, my share is they find some outlet to work out their lust and erotic and feelings to be able to truly love and respect their partner.

For me it has been poetry ... for you it can be cutting a cord of wood, or building something, or learning a new wicked skill.

But if you desire to be with a bombshell of femininity personified by Ena . You have to manage your emotions "hard", to make her toes to curl "harder", and then you will get to enjoy your hardness to it;s fullest and so will she :)