I realized recently a gift I have that I am lucky to have is that I have a compersion oriented view on sexual intimacy.

I personally think it is one of the greatest gifts I can share with my partner, if they are secure in themselves.

Sure there are kinks and the sexual aspects too it, but to me the aura around the being is the glue that connects two souls together.

I believe given the shared trauma women have in our society, these pathways are built for woman by woman to support woman invisibly. Men do not have that as it is a more violent view between masculine figures.

Guys can learn to evolve into something better and stronger when they find the feminine traits within themselves, and when they do ... compersion can happen.

Women love to test men :) for a good reason. One good test for women is the use of toys in the bedroom. If a guy is threatened by it ... he doesn't have it.

So remember you are wonderful and beautiful and everything in between, and societies standards don't apply. As I have shared before, I have slept and been with women in the "8-10 category" range of society, and they were basically average in intimacy and sexuality.

The curvier and more in touch with themselves women ... knock it out of the park 95% of the time ....