I refuse to change my civility or gentleman like attitude because my intent is non sexual and it is to be kind at minimum and at most friendship.
Am I a charged guy? You betcha, but I have a lot of respect and frankly with guys low balling it, I don't blame women for being toxic with their words. Do note it is words in general public and not one on one. If a person acts like that they will enter a three strike zone, and once past that the person is not worth my high quality time (period).
It shouldn't be like this but I intend to be the best authentic guy I can be.