I see this with my partner in the horse industry also. It is so disturbing to watch it happen. Take a woman who actually tracks higher IQ then myself [I am around 160], someone who is as tough as nails [she got stampeded by horses and her knee went sideways and she dragged herself 100 yards to the house (I was on the road).
She basically gets shit on by so many people at so many levels it is wrong.
I try my best with my white male privilege to make it happen for her (shall I say hundreds of thousands of dollars). To living in an area that is literally a walking CAT IV area for my health ....
I then see folks with privilege, with access and seeing them waste it which sucks assets from the economic and social pie .... fucking awful.
Then don't get me started on influencers. The Kardishans of life ... seriously 1 billion in earnings and assets for what? Looking pretty on TV and social media pontificating sex and all that. Don't get me wrong, I am not a prude (some folks probably get that vibe of me) ... but seriously .... I look pretty I get money and fame screw the rest.
Well 2020 we got to see what that investment for decades has gotten us. Bumpkis ....
She has confidence and is a woman like most quality women (not biological females or toxic femininity induced women), but it has hardened her to the point I wonder how much of this blows back on me personally.
It makes me angry, but then I realize rage solves nothing and I have to focus, but sadly guess what. That burns mojo, sensitivity and all that and damages me while I repair.
Society and life attempts to offer a quick fix and "fake" enlightment ... but on the flip side women of the earth, even those with hard core traditional views with good intent .... get shafted hard because well you know in traditional life women are to be subjected to submission.
What damaged webs we weave in our inner souls based upon outer influences.
This is not a simple solution situation. This is a complex issue because we need both men and women to tell the system of patriarchy and the shadow evils to go fuck off. Bring in the mindfully masculine studs and intelligent and liberated feminine goddess to re build this world and life.