I see women like Meaghan and Yael and Demeter and Ena Dahl …. I see their freeness and awesomeness and in my damaged relationship (my fault too so I own my own shit) and say ….
I want and desire to make my partner feel “exactly” like they are putting words too. If at that point and after I have given my all, if it doesn’t work or happen … then we have that hard discussion about how I can meet my needs which due to consent can’t be met.
We reap what we sow and you only get what you give.
Like I have shared, I am a natural switch. I love the many shades of vanilla and can dive deep through that and make and desire to make it super tasty as a meal for a month straight.
But I also know if I can bridge that divide, the submissive part of my being may truly get the “watch what you wish for”.
So I truly hope your happy increases because in shitty times like this … god(Dess) knows we all need some more of it …..