I see women like Meaghan and Yael and Demeter and Ena Dahl …. I see their freeness and awesomeness and in my damaged relationship (my fault too so I own my own shit) and say ….

I want and desire to make my partner feel “exactly” like they are putting words too. If at that point and after I have given my all, if it doesn’t work or happen … then we have that hard discussion about how I can meet my needs which due to consent can’t be met.

We reap what we sow and you only get what you give.

Like I have shared, I am a natural switch. I love the many shades of vanilla and can dive deep through that and make and desire to make it super tasty as a meal for a month straight.

But I also know if I can bridge that divide, the submissive part of my being may truly get the “watch what you wish for”.

So I truly hope your happy increases because in shitty times like this … god(Dess) knows we all need some more of it …..

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.