I seriously just don't get that at all. How dark of a place does one have to be and live that one has to tear a person down.

It is wrong on so many levels, but in reality hearing them spout it means you walk away and walk away hard and fast.

Wanting to be desired and loved is a natural and awesome thing everyone should feel. You also point out the most important thing, if one can't have a quality relationship, it is better to not have it. That doesn't mean one shouldn't try. The last line where women reject men because they were rejected turns their hard work into nothing.

Intent matters. What they can ask is 'what took you so long.

I do get what you are saying as I have talked to women coworkers and friends along my travels. I do get why as the women reminded me of some of my low confidence guy friends.

Sexual attraction and spark is about being confident and knowing one's self. So for women that believe they are undesirable, learn to self love and self love often. Be sexually adventurous with one's self and expand from there ...