I wish it wasn't called a rape fantasy, but there is no good way to call it in two words.

I call it power play sex where a woman is surprised with hard and assertive sexual intercourse.

Given I have history with this topic :-) i.e. the sliver lining.

Here is what I would do as a man who had a negative experience with a woman that had this desire. We would talk about it and I would state over the next X days, this would happen. On my farm, if this was the case when she is alone, I would take her by surprise there.

If I was traveling like I would, I would purposely come home a day early and do this. If my partner was a business traveler, I would surprise her in hotel room.

So the key thing is consent, talk and discussion.

On my front, I deeply desire to be taken by female partner. From a therapist discussion, the desire is to feel the act of intimacy with a person that I love and when or if this happens she believed I would be healed 100%.

So you are so right .... there is nothing wrong with fantasies. Talk, consent, love and care (especially after care). As a 5'11" large man .... trust me I can make a woman feel small ... but consent consent consent ..... and once done ... watch out because poor you.

My partner is like you. She has never been assaulted, and I have made sure she has had a safe home and place, and given I am a presence ... she can gain some protection from me. That is something I am very proud of ... her safety.

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.