I would say Queen :-) that also dabbled is sex worker, but that is my opinion.
Your husband is a lucky man, but I do believe you have the right equation.
Loss of couples privilege usually comes with a loss of intimacy.
My view is the experience and skills you now bring to the relationship are pretty impressive for engagement in physical intimacy.
My preferences have always been redheads and brunettes, but I will say you are pretty impressive.
Be Well, and I hope you and Brian have all the happiness and health that two people deserve in life!