I wouldn’t you use worst but replace it with sad. Using worst takes a group of men who are good but via trauma or whatever and shames them to “man up”.
Who is more evil in this situation. The intact and independent woman who is looking for a male partner and who feels their time and self have been rejected because another person rejects even themselves and as such lash out and kick the person that is down.
My time, my hope, my …. and mean while the guy on the flip side who is trying to be whole and full … fails again.
Now if the man lashes out with physical violence … that is a whole different situation … but if we strip that …