If one looks at "the one" via the rose colored glasses of "couples privilege" and monogamy, then yes you are right.

If one looks at "the one" where intimacy is shared but open and honesty and no walls between two people and their hearts and souls, you may still have that.

That isn't for me or others to know or get, but it is for you and Flo to figure out.


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