Yael Wolfe, if you hadn't responded, then here is food for thought as a response to someone who trolls and added it to the previous comment. Since I was busy for 15 minutes …
So you had 5-15 minutes to spew your hate and shame, I have a male friend one that is in your gender.
His partner is living her life to the fullest, and he supports her in every way she can. That means taking care of 34 animals every day with feeding and care, being an adult and cleaning up after himself, and working a full time job.
He spends his 5-15 minutes opposite of yours, and if one looks at action. "He" stated, he cleaned a toilet, put away -and- started dishes, folded a load of laundry and put them away, picked up the receipts from buying stuff for the farm and newspapers he needed to read. He brushed his teeth and then setup to purify some city water for his distiller and drinking.
He did that while you trolled me right now. Does he ask for a badge? Fuck No. It is being a male adult in society, and while he did it he was thinking what shall I make for dinner and what should I read tonight?
Learn, listen, and grow. If you can't, scroll on by and keep quiet.