IMO, because men don't own the field when it comes to horniness. Women can be far hornier then men, and why?
Because if a man is a "man", he takes on responsibility and accountability, which burns quite a bit of energy. If he shows temperance and respect and communicates, it burns quite a bit of his masculine kindling.
Then if we take the wild and stupid "dumb stick" with the t-juice, which really nails younger males and boys, it only truly lasts hot and hard for the first 20-30 years tops, which starts from first explosion.
A numbing occurs over time, and the kindling is blown out, and unless a man takes the time to focus the spark and explosive flame ... it will snuff out.
Women aren't stupid as they see this, the problem is men aren't aware enough to know this is happening and then they peacock and explode.
To be free and open, means communicating your issues and problems through words and not foisting emotional baggage on another, unless consented too.
A priest or priestess knows this, and if given the gift they also know that toxic release will impact the listener. Then who will she/he release too?
New relationship energy and the joy of the find only lasts months to a few years, where you go from there? Dunno, but if one doesn't take the time to work and harness their circle of friends to be high quality and engaging, then one needs to understand the safest thing they can do is self love.
There are Toxic Dicks and Uber-Thirsty Vaginas/Pussies, all rooted in deep loss and loneliness.
Love yourself, take care of others with your reserves, but only do so with those of value.
From my limited knowledge hunting, I have read in matriarchal setups, men were included, but only trusted men. When they earned that right and were trusted, the community of women would share the positive masculinity. The thing is ... the man had to prove his authenticity and true/good masculinity every day he was alive to stay in the circle.
How do we find that inner balance is the rallying cry for every generation of men and women, and we all know right now things are horribly broken.
I don't have an answer for you, but I do know being broken, what I have done to fix me and add value to my loved ones, and friends I have talked and engaged with in my life.
One of the most important things for me was ridding myself of the toxic souls.
E.g. I posted something that took a few months to process about how some folks attacked the messenger and forced certain folks into certian political camps.
It was a test of my circle, and a few I expected to go toxic on and a few that I didn't did. They usurped the conversation into a discussion over their issues and their priorities over mine. The pontificated their righteousness and their standing and way, and never ever worked out or asked the right questions.
You know what I did ... had the conversation, engaged with them, and then when it was done.
Pushed them out of the trust circle in my life. One can still communicate and be civil and friendly, but one doesn't have to accept their negative energy (which I see as a core message in your article).
With them getting ejected, the slots were made available for others that I slid in and said ok ...
As for boy crazy ... picture the raw hot desire of the masculine spark, where all of his energy is focused on you and your pleasure. I am talking desire, intellectual stimulation, physical pleasure, and having him take the second at a strength level and taking a knee as a knight to a king/queen.
One can't tell me harnessing that raw infinite for a second power and knowing one's femininity and soul captured another isn't enticing ...
