In a way I almost prefer the term sensation play.

When playing with a submissive woman (especially if she has an alpha personality), I always loved mixing in the pleasure and pain combination.

One thing I used was this .... I stated to one woman, I am going to use your vibrator, my hand, and three other objects

Those objects were here hair clips, a paper binder clip, and a staple remover.

Then I intermixed playing with her, and then using one of the last three on her nipples while I did this. The look on the face was priceless especially once the staple remover was seen.

I never used humiliation with a woman, because I always found women are humiliated enough in life as it is. Application of soft power though in the mind ...

Verbally delicious.