In reality you are too much woman for him, I mean what woman desire empathy and respect that barely fits a thimble!

I believe for some of these kind of guys, they subconsciously know that they will never measure up so the neg and attempt to tear down without realizing it.

If a guy does this (it happens) and he is in his teens and early 20s? Sure, it doesn't make it right at all, but given the utter lack of essential authentic training for men, one can strike out a few times.

But get into your late 20's and onwards? Damaged goods only good enough for the pick me girls and hyper traditional and religiously driven who have binary views on gender and sexuality.

Should even women like this deserve this (fuck no), but if one only keeps very black and white views of gender and sexuality, they shouldn't be surprised in the lack of levels of gray that is in all of us.

I wish you a happy holidays and untold surprises (good) and wealth