Alan Tegel
2 min readAug 18, 2022

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Isn’t it ironic that inaction will mark guys as MGTOW? Frankly, I don’t blame women at all and in fact I support and applaud them for doing so. Those that want to be stuck in the 1950s mud house, can stay there. Women that are so thirsty that they are drinking salt water and refuse to listen to other women and even authentic men, can look to some higher power or something to live.

Living in fear and grabbing the low brow means a crappy life. Most folks will sometimes substitute religion for healthy relationships and intimacy, not realizing that it is a cop out. One should have healthy relationships “and” can have religion too, but most fail to understand it requires “thinking”, “walking”, and “chewing” at the same time.

E.g. in my relationship (I have been a guy lucky enough to hold one down for a while) I have been trying to teach myself to look at moments when I fear or when I am angry and trying to get it. What is the person going through, what shit things are happening, did I cause it? How can I help, or do I just listen etc …

Selfawareness is queen/king, but most importantly action.

Lacking action, deflecting with commentary (defensive), and even if one isn’t confident not supplementing it with honesty and communication with the person you are with (vulnerability) … means the partner you are with will never trust you. If you are a guy you can bet the probability of orgasm equality won’t happen either.

I have more examples, but at this point … I will let the sleeping dog / cat lie :).

Women deserve better, and men if they step up and do the work will realize some amazing stuff.

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Alan Tegel
Alan Tegel

Written by Alan Tegel

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.

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