It breaks my heart to have this happen, but then I realize it is all about them.
Do you know how much it triggers people when I say I am a Liberal Republican? Cap it off with being a white male?
I take the learning experience and think if I was a black male, this is what I would feel plus a lot more. I use it for empathy and understanding.
That being said … I know am different, and to me that is ok.
Be in my circle and my friend you will know and I will have your back is what I say.