It is about consent and intent and balance, if a person forces their beliefs on another person even if for good reasons, they are toxic. (My view on the woke view)
You are right :) I didn't write that correctly :) but the joys of communication is ... you realize I made an honest mistake, which makes you a good person!
Let's take an example, I enjoy opening doors for others. So if it happens on a date, someone might call that a red flag, but if they take the time to ask. Then they would know I do it for all genders, ages and races ...
I hope guys that are interested in you that read our conversation learn something about you and how to approach you respectfully :) and in the right way too!