It is articles like this that help a lot of men understand that they are worthy of being desired and desirable.

Men and women communicate so differently and it is very easy to be disconnected. Sharing this actually helps bridge the divide.

One wonders if boys and men grew up and knew that women "highly" desire them as a gender (in a consensual and respectful way) if relationships would be better, more respect would be seen, and in the terms of monogamy and couples privilege if more relationships would stay intact or "end" positively.

Personally, if I had such a positive feedback loop like you are providing, maybe I would have not had as damaged a relationship as I have had now, or maybe ended it earlier before it bloomed, or been super happy and in therapy in my 20s versus 40s ...

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