It is simple. If you stated your life was grand, gave advice based upon it being grand, and yet you were winding down the path to dissolution and only say “hey crap we are getting divorced now” after the divorce.
That is the definition of hypocrisy with a dose of narcissism. It is a picture of false pretenses and lies which we all know in therapy and life coaching is anti-thesis of real therapy and growth (i.e. anti-growth).
So … when I read your last comment it made sense to me, and you know what I had to say …. this is an effective call out to what I just defined. If someone attacks the messenger, then they need to understand that the problem is Hollis or the author (you) it is them ….
They are projecting their darkness on you …. which means they truly need therapy and a life coach that is certified.