It is the same for men, and in some ways men never truly open "their mental souls/minds (or legs)" for their partner either.
This is the crux of what needs to be done in our society,
What is even funnier if you think about it, is that we need the roles actually reversed sexually in a way.
We need men to "close their legs" and "open their hearts". While we need women to dive in and say give me that my love I need it now, and feel safe.
That is my food for thought on Funday Friday.