It is very hard for all of us out there, as friendships between the genders is also very important. (i.e. it isn't all about the mating and dating :) )

What I have learned along my travels is the importance of increasing the circle of "one's people" to enrich one's personal life.

Why is it important? Well people get divorced, separated, partners pass, and people move and flow.

When one has a wider range of partners and friends in life, it allows them to bounce back. It also allows one to say "hey ... person X over there has traits that I think are awesome. I need to find them or their friends and say "wassup".

I see quite a few (including one this morning I need to find and maybe respond too) where genders are stereotyped. The person is in pain, and writing to get out of the mess, and that is ok.

But one has to be careful when discussion crosses the line, because what you put out there is a reflection of your intent and inner soul.

I love women to pieces, they hold a lot of missing puzzle pieces "in me" that I want and desire to fill. The thing is though, that doesn't mean it has to be a CIS female. It has to be a human being that has the write mix of masculine and feminine and one that is ready to partner up and "ride and die", without making a person truly ride and die.

Great perspective and good luck!

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.

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