It is why I look at myself as a pansexual. I look for the write blend of masculine and feminine energies and spirit within.

It is why I can find transgender women and highly masculine women very attractive. The thing is though, I would never ever force it on my partner. If they are comfortable in role playing it as you appear to have done, nothing more should be said.

You are absolutely right, this is a non-starter as changing you for the relationship is a no-no and dances around the forced consent bucket of life.

I struggle with my partner in areas of kink and submission (I am a natural switch) and the lack of sexual compatibility hurts to the core.

Rebooting my masculinity also freed me from the binary constructs of our traditional patriarchal infused society.

When I see fun and intimacy possibilities, I see the heart and soul of a person. IF masculine energy is at your core that is awesome. embrace it. If it isn't no grooming is not consensual sex.