It isn’t a bother at all, it is a gift … consent “always”. Personally, autonomy matters.

Great article.

My food for thought though since I believe I have heard also in other relationships where women are dying for their male partner to do that touch, to have that desire, to be able to to answer yes I consent … but nothing happens since the flame or boy in the man is dead.

The time frame I am talking about (and assuming heterosexual relationships) is after the initial lust phase, and after the phase where both sexes swap roles and settle into their normal state which on average is >2 years.

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