Just as society has had the feminist movement, and we have had numerous affirmative action for a variety of genders and races, there is none of this. The only program that has been defined is the patriarchal system that folks talk too.

Women when they bath in the river, have the ability to jump out and have groups pulling them out due to the necessity of survival. Men don't. What I do see is an article like this as the first straw person attempt to create an appropriate life line for those guys that are drowned and reborn in a casket under the water every day.

Innately as a guy while being bathed in tradition, a guy will look down and see his toy, weapon, etc, and realize at some point all he has is the ability for pleasure and creation of death, and when he sees his counter point, he sees that women can do that "and" create life (birth).

Gender definition is all built on social construct, but one does have to admit at some level within the pure CIS view, girls have a biological marker which bridges the gap from girl to woman, while boys in reality don't.

I have a unique tale which provides some glimpses into the world of women which are horrifying. I also have experiences which both genders are the toxic avenger in life and it damaged me tremendously.

I then said enough and started to work on it (circa 2015 start of rebirth process). One of the major milestones was becoming a feminist, and another one was tossing both right and left trolls out of my life. Believe it or not I actually found the trolls of the left far more deadly and hurtful then the right, since they have the ability with their pain and trauma the ability to craft a perfect weapon to maim and kill one's soul due to it being done to them.

Where you are absolutely correct as a human being with a female spirit looking a human being with a male spirit, is one needs to be clear, be concise, and be direct and set the boundaries.

But a person needs to toss expectations and stereotypes out the door (even political ones), because there is no amount of people one can meet in their lifetime that can provide a proper statistical sample given billions of people.

I saw a great quote and I don't know the author, but the person stated the future is not female it is gender fluid. I would agree with that 110%.

Great article and very thought provoking, and for your reference I was a liberal republican for many years, but after the last fandango and I observed since 2006 my voting did not represent it. The level of bigotry I would observe would floor you, but hey I took it then and realize now it allowed me to toughen up (still have work to do) since it is the exact thing women have had to do for many centuries.

That being said, I also realized that just like with men, there are quite a few low value, low quality women out there in the world, and one needs to be careful of granting access and time and energy to one's soul and energy and life force.

Be well.




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Alan Tegel

Alan Tegel

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.

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