Just because a man has spun around the planet for 30,40, and 50 years doesn't mean he has evolved mentallty past the 14-20 year old mentality.

It means they are stunted and child-like.

In the old days, younger women were "bred" (and yes I am using this horrible term) because their surviviability from child birth was better.

This fact proves that a man is not loving or desiring a woman, but is desiring offspring to push his name (pure narcissism).

The key for adult males who wish to evolve into something more is realizing and separating the biological urges, the mental connection of sex to soul, and evolving. Also, not every man or woman evolves either ...

The hard part as we can see in societies that are more balanced though, is when guys get it since work really has never been done to facilitiate a better and more authentic man ...

Desire wanes, and the birth rate falls off, leading to societal issues. IMO, this is something that needs to be worked on. We definitely can't say having "fetish" like behavior for youth is ok because of the threat of it. That is a hard no.

What we do need is some way for men to feel desired (healthy) and to feel emotionally safe to broaden masculinity and be vulnerable in talking about shortcomings of desire, or those moments when they are blinded by testerone ....

Men deserve better for a more holsitic love and passion, as do women with this along with safety and no fear for their lives.

But sadly, I do believe (please let me be wrong) that over the next generation or two as women take the mantel of leadership (and this is good), they will find the supply of equal men and desire being given and shared will dwindle like the Heat Domes spreading through the world in 2022.