Life is so damn ironic. I am a guy who loves all of that, and I swear to god ... a hyper majority of the women I was with weren't interested in it.

I always wondered about it, was it me, or was it the fact that women didn't want to get close close, or was I just a transactional fuck.

Reading this and thinking about it, made something click in me.

With my last threesome (FFM), after I didn't finish but yeah fun times had by all. I looked down and I got the feel I was just a sex toy at some point. In the past, I was like whatever, who wants to fuck and did I get off.

Very interesting and great article as always for a personal retrospective for me!

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Alan Tegel

Alan Tegel

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.

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