Life is so damn ironic. I am a guy who loves all of that, and I swear to god ... a hyper majority of the women I was with weren't interested in it.
I always wondered about it, was it me, or was it the fact that women didn't want to get close close, or was I just a transactional fuck.
Reading this and thinking about it, made something click in me.
With my last threesome (FFM), after I didn't finish but yeah fun times had by all. I looked down and I got the feel I was just a sex toy at some point. In the past, I was like whatever, who wants to fuck and did I get off.
Very interesting and great article as always for a personal retrospective for me!