Men do care but if a man calls it out, deflection occurs and the woman’s transgression is hand waves away by the 🎯 is put on him.
I have met two women who interestingly enough are social justice warrior types that exhibit this exactly. I have also seen conservative women do it too.
So what I have learned is to do what I just did when a woman brings up a good discussion like you did and provide respectful advice.
I battled these demons and won.
Just know I as an individual am here to support women and minorities wherever I can. The only thing I advise to those that attack those with this darkness in them to take care. Why? The darkness has a way of trying to darken those that fight back.
As a point example, I met the lead sniper at an Admirals club on one of my regular business trips. We talked and at the end he stated thank you. You are the first person to ask me about how I felt as a human and how I dealt with raising my girls at home when I have been touched with the darkness in life. He then asked have you killed someone because how you talk and act shows an understanding that is rare. I stated no. I did nearly kill a guy that was raping a woman with my bare hands, and I have a farm where we have to put animals down occasionally.
That darkness once you are around it …. Taints you.
So with that take care and thanks for the conversation.