Men should put in their fair share of spicing things up while women should take more of the lead and making their husband's feel desired.

Also, as guys age as most women know, men lose control of their body so the standards of sexuality need to also be adjusted over time too.

That means expanding the range of sexual intimacy outside of PIV type of sex. It means men learning how to please all of a woman, while women help men learn how to expand their feelings and outside of the small sliver that is expected.

Equality should be seen in relationships, and men own the responsibility to open and up and talk about their limitations and the need for help. With that and the ability to feel desire, novelty can come to the relationship.

The sad reality which I am sure you and others have researched and seen that people that eject themselves from partnered relationships usually find themselves in a similar predicament a few years down the road with another person.

So in this essence the only thing they enjoyed was the new relationship energy, and at that point they may need to reflect that either they need to staying single and just engaging in transactional sex or stepping into areas like ethical nonmonogamy ...