Mmm .... man-child and child what a combination!

My response to him would be, so you are going to be a house-husband. Good for you. Are you ready to do all the cleaning and household work as a professional husband?

No? Then go get snipped as having a child is a responsibility meaning you have to feed, and care for another person, and frankly you appear to struggle to take care of yourself.

I have little empathy for man children that through temper tantrums. If I look at what I have had to do in those 9 years ... I just can't ... why?

I have had to run my wife's horse business caring and feeding several dozen animals non-stop for one full year 24x7.

Helped care for a special needs horse which during a one year period while traveling weekly meant my weekends were spent feeding a bottle to a horse every 1-2 hours. I made sure my wife could sleep 8-10 hours on Sat/Sun and there were times my sleep was on a plane somewhere.

Averaged 60-80 hours a week "and" I did the laundry and dishes and non-cooking household things (you know the 1/2)

Oh and since my wife is in agriculture which sucks with cash flow, I am the primary breadwinner in the house.

Meanwhile dude ... you lived like I did in college for months versus years ... Now because I was busy and doing productive 'shit', I never was lucky to have children ... but you and your piss poor genetics and outlook want to replicate.

No thank you ... :) ... I will loan you money dude (to your friend) I will take you to go get snipped and will buy your meals for 48 hours post surgery.

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.