My coming out as a pansexual was almost a month ago. I shared this with a few friends (sadly not my partner yet) [I am a pansexual].

It has been hard because I have been kink shamed and have dealt with traumas which made me have to hide behind the mask as a pure CIS-Het Male.

I love my partner deeply, but I also realized I love real people and not genders and that took a long time to process.

Thanks for writing this … I just found it today in 2020 ….