Edenssecret my partner doesn't have the range for this, but I know when talking with a future one this will be important to talk with.
Women have been abused, taken advantage of, subjugated. In the privacy of a shared home, two people (or more if it is necessary) should be able to heal and do anything and everything to help the other.
Take a woman who has been controlled awfully by her partner and her job and life? Build consent and talk to it and make her the Queen and give her the confidence and control she needs. My male needs and views take a follow approach, and she leads no matter what.
When she is healed and feels good and better, she can say ok I am good let's rebalance. (like a pendulum).
So the more wild and open-minded one is in all things, the more fun and crazy and wild two people can have. That is the point of being partners together, be crazy as hell, leave boring to the close-minded folks.
But in the really important things, equality and consent all are the rules of the day. Communication is bad, talk talk talk, and be open.
I still have to thank you, the poem I wrote for you unlocked something in me. It still shocks me, and you can see the output.
The funny thing is I have been super busy at work, and even doing all the required house stuff too, but it still keeps flowing ....
I hope you have fun and wild thoughts and a great weekend!