My view is this.
Sometimes the mirror and what you do and did to fix yourself is just too close to the demons in them.
Knowledge of this gives this person that traum from inside their head amplified by your words on the outside and leads to an overload.
I believe my experiences last year was meant to teach me that as several SJWs had a hard time trying to tear down comments of mine because they were factual and cold, and since I had all the same experiences a lot of women had (and) I was not abusive.
It chilled them that they realized that they had serious demons themselves.