My view that I had to work through is this:

I respect both sides of the gender coin, don't tie it to biology, and I have a unique feminine and masculine pattern I desire and find attractive.

So that means it could be a femme gay man, a transgendered man, or a woman who is very alpha. That doesn't mean I wouldn't find a traditional CIS-female not attractive.

It is the person not the labels...

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Alan Tegel

Alan Tegel

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.

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