Neither or Both, and frankly (to quote a movie) …. we don’t give a damn.

One person leads sometimes and then follows in others … or if the couple has specific power play rules and leadership preferences follow those.

I mean can you imagine the minds of those that label, if things were different where there was a primary lesbian couple who also had a unicorn as a biological man.

Then saying …. yep … we are the men (the ladies) and he is the wife ….

Sit back with the popcorn and watch the show …

What an offensive question to be asked of you two ….