Nice and in-depth description for guys to read an understand.
On the flip side, I believe men need to get a taste and understanding of what it feels like to be desired.
We have two messages going on here women are the only ones to be desired and men are never to be desired.
Learning how to deal with this may also help men stay loyal and faithful because they will have better communication skills and interpersonal handling between folks that find one another attractive and desirable (from a far).
But I would like to reiterate …. Yes means Yes, No means No, and if it is unclear assume No but try to ask better but no more then twice.