No. Also no person should be made to feel awful about their life circumstances. It sucks (it really does) that guys don't have the depth of character to figure out that the package inside is what really matters and the outside is just the small taste of life.

I have learned going from a six pack to a lovely keg of a body :) that there is a lot more to a person then meets the eyes.

Keep on "keeping on", and be the strong, loud, and #1 prize for someone that will want to be your everything. If they don't, then count your blessings since who wants to swim in the small creek of masculinity, when you deserve a lake or ocean of masculinity.

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Alan Tegel

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Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.

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