No two people are the same, e.g. I am very proud to make sure that my partner has always been safe and secure and never tried to change her. My problem has been with communication and sharing of emotions due to issues in my life (ones that parallel a lot of women).
So the funny find is she goes “fast” and I am the “slow” one. Now the funny ironic twist is it leads to a weird role reversal where she thinks I don’t want her or need her, where I need the touch and engagement to “go”, while frankly I have to admit she is a dream woman for the very traditional guy.
Life is funny and fun, and if one doesn’t really sit down and talk and try to work things through as a heterosexual couple it is doomed. If it works, there is no better relationship because the biological differences add that extra spice.
Thank you for a fantastic share, and you are right …. I look for the closed eyes, a held breath and the quiet sigh to know she is there ….