Oh yes definitely. My poor person's analogy is this.

Two people sitting at a bar, saying man a pool would be nice to have on these hot summer days when we are both so damn thirsty.

Do you not talk about what kind of pool, how deep, how wide, and how it would and should look and feel?

Or does one find a plot of land anywhere stick a shovel in scoop twice and pour water in and say "hey ... lets swim :) ".

Some folks are happy with flat land with water on it, some are happy with a few scoops, and yet some people desire an infinity pool.

There is no wrong answer, as long as people talk, live, and love. Most importantly they don't judge.