On my journey, to rebuild myself due to trauma, one of things that was requested was I actively look and enjoy transgendered women. I am a CIS-male, who had a lot of confusion because I labeled myself as Het.


What I found out is due to my soul and love and the trauma overlaying a demisexual filter that was very strong, I actually realized I was pansexual.

So, I see trans women as women 100%, and the most important thing CIS-males can understand is that through the biological male filter view, they can understand their masculinity and their counter femininity.

If I was single again, I would definitely be very much open to transgendered women, and I would even love them just as strong if they were pre-op too. They don't need to change their biology to have me love them.

One positive view is I have a very strong feminine warrior in me, which kept me alive from my traumas. I am not one that wishes to presents as one, but I am talking the spirit and feelings and empathy and the positive feminine traits as defined in our society. For me having a partner like this who has a male spirit also, would allow me to be taken and to be loved fully and wholly.

I desire in my relationship to be penetrated, but don't have that now, but I have seen the pain side of it 100%. I deeply desire the love side. I want to feel what women feel, just like I love to give my partner with strong female qualities the manly desire she desires.

Without that I am 1/2 the man I can and should be. Transgendered folks are special and unique and amazing. Because of this people that are bland, single tasked, an normal-ish, feel threatened because they realize this. In a world, which rewards uniqueness, only the bland and weak use violence to make them look unique.

Be well and thanks for the education, hugs to you (consensually)

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.