Alan Tegel
2 min readAug 2, 2021

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One might say men from the 1950's appreciated teamwork and understood that life is short due to WWII and death (and they understood about starvation from the Great Depression and WWI.

So one might say there were more authentic men, since some of them started to work on not treating women as chattel.

So as time passed, men have become less authentic and real, as documented by women via #metoo and other aspects. So for those biological males that prefer the "bimbos" realize for any mature and rational human being, you can therefore be called a "himbo".

If as a guy you can't understand that feminism means equality between the genders, and the ability to let people have the choice to be free and independent or to conform to traditional view or to conform to the toxic cultures of masculinity and femininity as described by "bimbo"/"himbo". One needs to get educated, since you are missing the point.

If one tries to conflate feminism with a horrific set of people that mass murdered people last century, that is more one's trauma talking then reality. Why? Because the majority of women out there may rant (i.e. using words which is the better first step) when slighted, I haven't known women to force gender or sexuality down a man's throat. Do understand there will be some toxic women out there but that doesn't mean it is all women either.

So no enthuisatic consent and no basic relationship where one has discussed the finer points of child rearing, working relationships, and how to do the realtionship dance .... no breeding and definitely no submisssion ever.

The fact that quite a few women who are independent and are "aware", are telling guys dudes, please do better. Should be like the check engine on a car, but one shouldn't expect a himbo to get that ...

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Alan Tegel

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.