One of my greatest pleasures, is to take an alpha female, make her feel safe and loved, and then watch her want to want to be spanked.
Then delivering it with increasing intensity until she cries more Daddy/Master I need more.
This to me is probably the equivalent of what you have written about giving blow jobs.
The funny thing is after wrecking her backside, and seeing that CxO style woman with tears and makeup down her face.
laying her on her back and showing oral affection and holding her to know she is in a safe space.
That to me is the perfect kind of power exchange duality ...